My Latest Blog Obession: Chocolate Hair, Vanilla Care

Hi friends!

You all know that I will never fail to share with you things/people/blogs/stuff that I like to obsess over. Today’s object of my blog-reading-affection is the hair care blog, Chocolate Hair, Vanilla Care. The blog is authored by a lovely woman named Rory. She and her husband are parents to an adorable, three-year-old little girl whom they lovingly call, Boo. They adopted Boo when she was just a few days old and have given her the warm and loving home that every child is deserving of.  The blog offers a front seat view on what trans-racial option looks like, with the focal point being how Rory learned to care for the hair of an African Amercian child. That’s a daunting task for any new mom, let alone one that may not have any point of reference on what natural hair looks and feels like, much less how to care for it.

When C.C. was around three or four months old, I began to search the net for tips on how to start caring for her hair. Sure, I’ve been combing my own hair for almost twenty years (gosh, I’m getting old!), but combing someone else’s is an entirely different story. I wanted to get a jump start on what I could expect, even moreso with me being on my own natural hair journey. Some people I know thought I was jumping the gun a bit, but I’m a firm believer that if you fail to plan, you plan to fail!

After doing some Google searching, I happened upon CHVC one night. I think what struck me about the site (and what continues to make it successful, in my opinion) is that Rory offers step by step instruction on how to braid, cornrow, wash, detangle,etc. her daughter’s hair. She offers tips and PICTURES of styles and maintenance, which is what I was craving. I wanted to see examples (ya’ll know how I feel about pictures!) and she presented exactly what I was looking for. I was thoroughly impressed.

To be completely honest, however, I was slightly disappointed that this new insanely helpful resource that I had literally been searching for, was done by a white woman. Not to mention, another leading blog/site on natural hair for children, Beads Braids and Beyond is also run by a white woman. I asked myself, “Why haven’t WE done this for ourselves?” But as quickly as that thought came, it left (I’m seriously talking a matter of minutes, here). I realized that none of that really mattered. Rory is a mom of a beautiful-brown-girl, to whom she wants to give the best care…just like me. That’s it. Black, white, whatever. It’s a mother’s love. Period.

Since then I have become a faithful reader of CHVC. The site is growing and I’m a full supporter and believer in her success! We’ve chatted online a bit and I find her to be incredibly sweet and hope to meet her one day (she lives in California, too).

For your clicking pleasure, here are some more links that will help you get to know more about Rory, Boo, and the blog!

Feature Loop21 Article: The Creator of Chocolate Hair, Vanilla Care Speaks

Feature Black Girl Long Hair: White Mother’s Opinion on Touching Daughter’s Natural Hair  – This post has garnered a whopping 294 comments! The subject matter of hair touching (in this case, Rory’s open letter about it) sparked a huge debate. Most of the comments are supportive, but there are a bunch that are mean and plain old nasty, which I find unfortunate. I wish people can get beyond the color issue (like I did) and appreciate her efforts to be a good mom, instead of tearing her down. SMH!

Please make sure to check the site out and show her some love!

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Posted on October 3, 2011, in Blogging, Features, Life and tagged , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 13 Comments.

  1. Why haven’t I come across CHVC? I am always looking for hair sites for my kids and haven’t found any that I like. I have no idea how to actually maintain and grow their hair. I can do my hair fine and I guess it doesn’t matter if I hurt/damage my hair through trial. I don’t want to damage me children’s precious natural hair. The hair styles on the site look easy to do with clear instructions. I will definitely keep going back To CHVC!

  2. *wipes tears* you don’t know how much this means to me, amber. well, all things considered, maybe you do. thank you from the bottom of my heart. 😉

  3. I am a FAN! We love reading her blog and don’t see anything but cute styles and a knowledge filled mama that I can glean from! I have learned so much that I wish I would have known when my oldest was younger. And I am in awe at how many hairstyles she has literally perfected! Inspirational I tell ya! Thanks for posting on them!

  4. I love that post about touching hair. I’m pretty sure I left a comment there at one point. That post said everything I wanted to say. As far as the blog, there are some styles I want to try on my head! So many cute natural styles to choose from.

    • I know, right! She totally makes me want to try some of the styles for myself! Especially since C.C. doesn’t have that much hair right now! LOL

  5. majo@yahoo.com

    have you never heard of curlynikki or nappturality? they’re great sites toooooo

  6. It’s a great blog u introduced there, I enjoyed reading it too!

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